I've had a lot of questions about why and how we manage to have an open invitation for anyone to come eat dinner with us on Sundays, so I thought I would expound a bit here.
God created us to be in fellowship. Fellowship with Him, and with each other. In these crazy days of over-scheduled lives, people have forsaken both. Time is a precious commodity. God asks us to give Him a portion of our best, our most valuable things. A tithe if you will. I think one of the most valuable things we can dedicate to Him is our time. That is why we have set aside Sunday for God and family. We go to church in the morning to worship and fellowship with God. Then we extend that fellowship in the afternoons to include our friends and family. We want to make time each week to connect with the people in our lives. We have been blessed that we are able to do this.
Now, for those that are curious, but haven't showed up...
No, we do not preach at our Sunday dinners. If you aren't a church goer, or a Christian, we aren't going to point fingers, call you out, or hold a prayer service over you. What we will do is welcome you into our home, take the time to talk to you about...whatever..., maybe have a few laughs and enjoy a home cooked meal with you. Yes, we will bless the meal. Yes, you will see evidence of our faith throughout our home. But we will not brow beat you with it. However, if you want us to pray for you or have questions about Christ, all you have to do is ask.
No, you do not have to bring anything. I try to make sure I have enough to go around. God always seems to make it work out. If you feel the desire to bring something to share, go right ahead. But don't feel like you have to contribute to come.
No, it isn't a formal dinner. We hang out in the living room, the front porch, where ever. Sometimes we eat off paper plates. Sometimes NASCAR is watched. You don't have to dress nice. We don't care what you wear, as long as you wear
something.
Yes, you are really, really invited. If you have heard about it, you are invited. Anyone is welcome. The only way you are not welcome is if you can't control yourself and your language in our home. If you cuss like a sailor, you'll be asked to refrain while here. If you smoke, you'll be asked to smoke outside. If you have tattoos, earrings, crazy hair, ride motorcycles, ride a unicycle, think bowties are cool, or are black, white, red or green from head to toe, YOU are welcome here. If for some reason you think we don't like you, you are welcome here. And we are sorry if we've made you feel that way, it wasn't intentional.
You may ask: can Apryl cook, or will she poison me? Most of the time, yes, I can cook well. We all have our occasional flops, but I try to cook things that I know have gone over well with most people in the past. If you show up and absolutely hate what I made, I always have bread and peanut butter around. I can find something for you to eat. Those that are in my family....you may have heard that I like to cook from things I've grown in my yard, or use exotic foods. Yeah, I do. But I usually only force immediate family to eat those things. My Sunday dinners are usually pretty tame. You may be subjected to free-range eggs and grass fed beef, but you won't notice, I promise.
Yes, children are welcome. I will admit, we don't have little ones. My house isn't particularly baby-proof. But if you are willing to keep an eye on your little one, then they are more than welcome. We have a big yard for kids to run around in. We also have Nerf-guns, balls, bikes, and Frisbees.
If you have questions: ask. You don't have to tell us ahead of time that you are coming. Just show up. We'll be here, unless I have posted otherwise on Facebook. If you don't know where we live...well, I'm not posting that on my blog. But send me a message on Facebook, on here, or give me a call. I'll point you in the right direction. We hope to see you!